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Adopting siblings




Sibling relationships are amongst our longest lasting relationships and contribute greatly to our sense of identity. Positive sibling relationships can provide a source of resilience for children facing adversity and provide continuity at a time of change and uncertainty, they can also be a source of support into adulthood. Placing siblings together has been associated with increased wellbeing and stable, enduring placements.


Children requiring care away from their birth families are more likely to have existing sibling relationships and come from larger sibling groups. Sibling groups of three or more are at greater risk of being separated in order to achieve permanence via adoption. In fact in Scotland at this moment there is nobody approved to adopt three or more children.



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What Can You Do?



​ If you are a prospective adopter then consider whether you could adopt a sibling group. Be open to being approved for more than one child to enable a younger sibling/s to join your family.


As an adoptive family then commit to maintaining sibling relationships between your child/ren and their brothers and sisters wherever they are. This can be in person, through visual media, cards, letters, pictures, photos etc. The ideal scenario is for children to experience ‘normal family life’. Can they meet up with siblings at the park, at the beach, at each other’s homes? Can they have sleepovers? Can this be arranged between families; be they Foster, Adoptive, Kinship? Start by discussing with your social worker.


Additional information about Sibling Relationships can be found at the Stand Up for Siblings website, or during Adoption Week 2020 join us at our webinar details and booking below.





MORE INFORMATION RESOURCES ON SIBLING RELATIONSHIPS





Download our factsheet on Siblings

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File on 4 programme, listen to Theighan and her sister speak about sibling relationships,


click here to watch



Blog where Theighan writes about seperation from her sister.


click here to read



Check out “Dionne - Sibling Separation” from Who Cares? Scotland on Vimeo.


click to watch



Helen Sharon Johnston writes for Stand Up For Siblings about her experiences.


Click here to read



This website was funded by the Scottish Government has been developed by Adoption UK in Scotland, Adoption and Fostering Alliance Scotland and Scotland’s Adoption Register